Fix for issue 3854 (Uninstall fails on Windows (due to log files))

There are a bunch of issues here:

1. The server was not stopped after being started if it contains replicated data.
2. The log files do not contain enough information.  New debug lines have been added.
3. One of the problems also found is that one of the remote servers to be updated (to remove the replication references) could not be contacted.  This is the expected behavior if the option forceOnError is NOT specified.  However the error message was not very clear about what was happening.  The new error message is very explicit about this and informs the user of the existence and behavior of the forceOnError option.